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To pout and stomp your feet and say you're not going to support the team until they start winning as much as you want them to seems a lot more childish to me. If my kid came back with a bad report card, I might get angry at him, yell a bit to put the fear of God into them but I won't tell them to start studying and get better grades and then come back to me. I would sit down with him and help him study and try to improve until he gets better grades. Because the Canes have some issues, I'm not going to to stop supporting them in the only way I can as a fan to punish them or send them a message. How can I as a fan help the Canes during this time? I don't think the answer is to stop supporting them and berating their every move.
#1- You have a vested interest and some amount of control over your child-- the ability to influence the outcome. We have none of that as fans who follow the program. The only way we "affect" change is with our words and our wallets.
#2- to stop financially supporting them is really the only way to get their attention-- unless Blake James plans on holding focus groups. To continue to support this program with your dollars, given the obvious changes that should be undertaken-- but the HC refuses to entertain-- to "support" this monetarily is akin to throwing money at the problem. Your aiding and abetting-- rewarding mediocrity. What part of this don't you get???????
#3- ".... to put and stomp our feet until the team wins?" Have you actually watched these games? Don't you find it maddening? And it's not like we're snake bit and its something new each week that jumps up and beats us. Its US-- our own team, the pitiful defensive scheme that shows itself week in, week out, that's a unmitigated disaster-- and a HC who refuses to acknowledge it, let lone take action to rectify it. Why? B/c his buddy is the DC.... dereliction of duty. Period.
What color is the sky in your world, really?
Just because the sky is falling in your world doesn't mean he doesn't have the right to support the program in his.
So is there a breaking point in the I'm going to withhold money to prove a point movement?
-at what point do you then become part of the problem and not part of the solution?
-at what point does your ability to complain and make change become neutered because you are part of the ****ing but not helping crowd?
Just asking.
Sounds more like you're "just saying" if you ask me. But I'll play along.
My comments in no way restrict his ability to support the team as he see's fit. So I haven't infringed on anyone's "right" as you insinuate. I simply was pointing out what I saw as flawed logic, or a point of view counter to his. My take is clear.
I find it interesting that people who blindly support the program hold themselves out as the "voices of reason" and then attempt to paint people who are critical of it as "Chicken Littles" (e.g the sky is falling). To my thinking, the sky already fell-- it happened when we lost to VT. That was my personal breaking point-- and followed a GT game that was far too close. The 3 TDs in the last 6 minutes obscured (ever so briefly) the real problems I was beginning to see with this coaching staff.
I suspect other people who feel the way I do- their sky fell subsequently with Duke, then the bowl game, then Golden's intransigence/denial about how bad our D really is-- and his failure to zip his best bud and DC.
I'm the problem!? You didn't really just lay down that tired, radical 60's slogan did you????? I'm one man on a message board. I can only HOPE to "affect" change. The real problem with our program sits in an office at the Hecht. They're they ones with the keys, pulling the levers. Nice try, but if anything, vocal people who are critical of the status quo stand a better chance of "affecting" real change than those who stand by "hoping" things improve.
Your last comment-- why is it you assume critical comments and complaining will become neutered? So let me understand, by going along to get along, I'm helping to fix things and this will foster positive change? I cant recall an instance where a much needed change came about by standing by, idly. Change almost always comes about with a clash of ideas and an upsetting of the status quo. Remaining silent is a tacit approval of the state of affairs.
Not everything needs to be a battle here so I am not going to argue with you over inferences, perception or interpretation.
I asked related 3 questions:
Is there a breaking point in the I'm going to withhold money to prove a point movement?
At what point do you then become part of the problem and not part of the solution?
At what point does your ability to complain and make change become neutered because you are part of the ****ing but not helping crowd?
To my questions -
- I am not saying anyone is part of the problem by questioning the man and withholding finances to do so.
- I am asking, with the underlying point being resources.
If you are withholding money, it decreases the resources the school and team have to make improvements. So the Victory Fund, for example, is trying to raise money for specific improvements that will benefit the team. Is withholding funds from that program helping the overall situation or potentially making it worse if that fund goal is not achieved?
That is the breaking point I am referencing --- to attempt to get Coach D fired, I will withhold money, by withholding money, I am willing to sacrifice improvements to better the football team.
To the point about being neutered --- one will always have the ability to complain, but unless they are willing to be creative, helpful and productive, many times those complaints will be ignored. With the number of angry messages, coupled with incoherent nonsense that the AD and office are receiving these days, my fear would be that those trying to bring thoughtful solutions to the discussion will be grouped in with the mindless ramblings of others with less productive goals and therefore ignored.