Meat
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You’re 100% right.
Yet just a few months ago we’re not even in his top 6.
So, yea, I’m not counting on him coming. I’m taking his word for it. Do I want him and think he should be getting the full court press? Of course. Do I think it will sway him? In a word, no. Hey, I hope he’s all Miami and keeping it a secret. If he is, he’s doing an excellent job of it.
Why would his dad, a millionaire, take a job coaching high school football? Because he wanted to coach his boy. That's a very understandable motivation.
Rumors have also been floating around that Surtain Sr has been looking for a job as a position coach. I believe it, because he's proven to be the kind of guy who wants to be involved with his son's development.
So I say like this - if some school comes around and offers Surtain Sr a position where he can be involved in his boy's growth as a football player, that's where he'll go. If that's LSU, then it'll be LSU.
If that doesn't happen, and Surtain Sr continues to live in Miami, then I believe his son will wind up at Miami as well. He wants to be able to keep an eye on his kid.
How do you even know this?
A lot of kids want away from their parents when they go away to school. Close by maybe, but not helicopter. You’re making assumptions like you have personal knowledge of the father/son and family, which you don’t.
I don't know the Surtain's for ****. Of course I'm making assumptions, like we're all doing here.
My own dad was very successful at what he did, so I'm basing my opinion on personal experience. There are two kinds of rich dads: the ones who are totally hands-off and are just totally focused on their own thing, and the ones who helicopter.
Successful people are almost always "type A," alpha types. They work work work, and never admit defeat, are super competitive, super driven, etc.
As parents, they're either not involved at all in their kids life, or they're micro-managing every detail so they can craft their kids in to some kind of version of themselves. I've never met a highly successful person who is capable of just being an average parent who maintains a normal distance and level of involvement in their kid's lives.
I'm just speaking from experience. But it's an opinion. I have mine, you can believe something different if you like.
Seriously?
There’s only two kinds of rich dads?
Do you ever listen to your assumptions and say to yourself, “man, that’s really stupid”
No. The answer is no.
There’s as many different kinds of rich dads as there are people. You have no experience with people and it shows. You’re just making shlt up as you go. Sorry to be so harsh, but it must be true. It’s the only thing that could explain you having such a narrow view.
Don't apologize to me for being harsh, ask yourself why you're so miserable and work on it. I've been walking around the house singing "jingle bells" all day, so I don't really understand the combative mindset.
I think I explained pretty well that the successful people I've known tend to be driven, and as driven people they tend to project that on to their kids.
It's an opinion, man. You don't agree with that? Great, have yourself a nice day.