Anyway you slice it, it's not fair. (but either is life)
Guys like us have almost no shot at keeping a stud player anymore, no matter how well we coach the kid or how much we do for him. It's extremely hard to battle against a private school with great facilities, a good education, a good reputation, etc...and then you add the fact that front-running is the thing to do nowadays and us public school guys are doomed.
Now, I would have no problem with STA if they just coached their ***'n kids and left other school's kids alone, like they used to, but that's not the case. If a parent chooses to take their kid elsewhere on their own, like Wade Freebeck's dad did when he took him to STA, then that's all good. Can't fault STA for that. But when you're persistently approaching kids from other schools, calling their cell phones, hollering at their mamas, getting in the daddy's ear all the time and lying to them about how much action they're going to get at STA...then it becomes slimy. That's the type of **** that creates animosity within the coaching world and ultimately is why a lot of public school coaches wish to see them fail.
You honestly can't fault a parent for wanting to see their kid at STA. I get it. But the part that I hate is when you develop a kid for 2 to 3 years and then STA coaches come and snatch him up after they see how good he is. It's almost like they scour the region for good athletes who are at schools that they can bully kids away from. "Coral Springs got a stud WR that caught 1,293 balls last year. We STA! We can take him from them." Then bam. Their coaches get a hold of the kid and the parents and feed them all kinds of BS. Next thing you know the kid is at STA, catching 1 pass per game.
This makes it almost impossible for the local public schools to build anything. Look at Western for example. They went 8-2, barely losing to McArthur and Flanagan. Elijah Moore and Kevin Austin could've been the difference between an 8-2 season and a 9-1 or 10-0 season. Forget Austin, Moore alone could've made that big of a difference for them. Instead, that kid was sold false dreams by STA, transferred and went from being his home school's main target to having a pathetic Junior year where he might've caught 12 balls.
STA doesn't hurt schools with a natural draw for athletes like Deerfield, Dillard, Miramar, etc...as much as they hurt schools who's handful of athletes make all the difference. (like Western, Cooper City, Coral Springs, Douglas, etc)
STA has been getting their share of studs for decades. At one point, the school basically recruited itself. And that's fine. When it becomes ridiculous is when their coaches go out of their way to take kids from other schools in an effort to stockpile their talent. It's unfair that STA had Elijah Moore twiddling his thumbs on the sideline when he could've been helping his home school achieve something special. That's not fair to the home school or their coaches.
And anybody who says "just do what they're doing, get on their level, **** or get off the pot, blah blah blah" has never coached and doesn't understand how difficult it is to fight the force that is STA. (or any well-off private school for that matter)