South AfriCane
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I’m sure you are absolutely correct. It doesn’t mean it’s effective though.Something like this probably happens before during or after 100% of games from the HS level and up.
I’m sure you are absolutely correct. It doesn’t mean it’s effective though.Something like this probably happens before during or after 100% of games from the HS level and up.
Yeah I wasn’t making any comment on effectiveness.I’m sure you are absolutely correct. It doesn’t mean it’s effective though.
It’s needed but doing it too much leads to kids just ignoring you and blocking you out. I’ve had coaches rip me so bad I had tears in my eyes but they gave me a pat on the back when I did something right. It can’t always be screaming , but tough love is needed for young men. There should be a balance.
These days coaches have to kiss asses amd worry about getting in trouble for being mean. They’re walking on egg shells, rather than just coaching.
Football prepared me for the real world and I wouldn’t change a thing about the coaching I received.
This is a patently ridiculous thing to say.
How you deliver a message, especially one that’s emotionally-charged, almost always determines whether that message is heard or not. We’ve all been in a disagreement before when someone said, “It’s not what you said but how you said it.” It’s like that.Why?
How you deliver a message, especially one that’s emotionally-charged, almost always determines whether that message is heard or not. We’ve all been in a disagreement before when someone said, “It’s not what you said but how you said it.” It’s like that.
I played at a very high level and was familiar with such rants. Hey, its a physical violent game and that type approach to a team has been going on from the very beginning and has been used by the very best. It is unfamiliar and uncomfortable to people who never experienced it. Of course many of today's Miami fans don't get it.If you think he is effectively expressing his anger then I’m not sure what to tell you. I played the game, not at a high level, but I did play and was subjected to these incoherent tirades. The first time it happened I was confused. I generally thought the coach was having a stroke. I could only make out every other word. I remember thinking, “Instead of raging, why doesn’t he tell us what we’re doing wrong and how we can do better.” You know, actually coach us.
I played at a very high level and was familiar with such rants. Hey, its a physical violent game and that type approach to a team has been going on from the very beginning and has been used by the very best. It is unfamiliar and uncomfortable to people who never experienced it. Of course many of today's Miami fans don't get it.
*sighs*The key line is "I got my *** kicked", not "we got our *** kicked".
This guy feels humiliated, and is taking it out on his team. Probably hits his wife when things don't go well in the bedroom.
My high school football coach didn't let us drink water. Haha. We had to suck on ice cubes. We survived.
Wow, I'm sure a bunch of college kids are going to play better football because a coach threw a hissy fit. I have no problem with it, it just doesn't work.