Way I think this has played out....
I think Kirkland decided to go to FSU, but he was telling Family and Harris he hadn't decided because he didnt want to be harassed. Coley tells Golden Kirkland had told him he was going to FSU. Staff meets with Kirkland and think he's jerking them around. They decide to force the issue and tell Kirkland to committ or we got some other guys for your spot. Kirkland knowing he wsnt going to pick Miami tells Golden he's still waiting until NSD. Staff pulls offer....family and Harris freak out because they want him in Miami and don't realize Kirkland's made up his mind. Scramble ensues with family and Harris trying to bring UM and Kirkland back together.
You may be on to something here.