Both sides of my family are from Miami from WAY back and I was born there but didn't grow up there. Grandmother was an alum in the 40s. Mom went in the 80s and I had the good fortune of going in the early 2000s. My dad did not go to UM and is one of the biggest fans I have ever met. I was raised watching 'canes football with him from the time I could walk.
To be honest I have never given a **** about alumni versus non-alumni because the Hurricanes are a city of Miami team. There is something truly special about the community that formed around the 'canes back when Miami was a completely different city. To this day my dad talks about the '83 orange bowl and how the entire city drove around honking their car horns for days after the game. There isn't that kind of continuity in the city any more (and its not a race thing, its a size thing), but I will always love and respect the old school 'canes fans and their entire community.
We lost a lot when we lost the orange bowl, but the 'cane spirit lives on and I can't wait to get back to dominance.
Rant over.