Right, the male pre-frontal cortex doesn’t even fully develop until 25. This is a dumb take.
There's a HUGE difference between the typical dodgy decision making from a young adult(which age and wisdom can correct) and consistently doing stuff that anyone with an IQ above room temperature should know is stupid, regardless of age. Those are the people I'm referring to. You want to see a living, breathing example of this phenomenon? Go watch "Teen Mom" on MTV. Those people CONSISTENTLY do things that are beyond dodgy, they double and triple down on awful decision making, odds are they aren't going to magically figure it out one day. The kind of person that is struggling to survive, that does something stupid, knows it's stupid, and then do it again and again will most likely have awful decision making skills for the rest of their lives. You can argue why that's the case, but we have too many examples of those people failing to ignore.
Avantae has more in common with someone on a MTV reality show, than he does with his peers on campus, the only difference between him and those MTV idiots is that he can play ball. Let's look at what he's done just in the last 5 years. He has multiple kids by multiple baby mammas, he has gotten into legal trouble, and he may have managed to crap on the one organization that believed in him, in public. Maybe one of these situations happening is a sign of immaturity, but multiple? Nah.
I hope the young man realizes that the grass isn't always greener on the other side, and that you need to give back to those that give to you. I remember Mel Bratton talking about when he first got to Miami and Coach Schnellenberger told him he was getting a redshirt. He wanted to transfer right then and there, and his mom told him to stay, because he made a commitment. He has said on multiple occasions that him staying changed his life for the better. I hope it works out for the young man.