Agreed. Many people are looking at this as a binary proposition where UM can only: 1) accept the early commitment, or 2) decline the early commitment. The approach should be more nuanced.
UM absolutely needs to set an expectation for its commits. Publicly committed recruits should be expected not to take visits to other schools (unofficial or official). They should be expected not to be posting about other schools being a "dream offer," nor should they beg for offers from other programs (and especially rivals). Absent a legitimate scheduling issue, emergency, or financial constraints, they should be expected to attend 7v7 camps at UM, Paradise, the December OV date for the UM commits, and other "invite-only" UM events for commits. If they don't do that, we won't hold their spot and will internally consider them "uncommitted" and actively recruit another player. Same treatment if they don't sign in the early signing period. A savvy, straight-forward coach who is a capable recruiter should be able to explain the expectation these young men without getting them so upset they look elsewhere or having them completely ignore him and cvck UM.
I do agree with what some have said about not taking the very early commits. As a general cut-off, I would like for us to stop accepting commitments from kids who haven't finished their junior football season (at the earliest). It just feels way too early.