Walk with me for a moment, child:
A poster close to a recruit, possibly dating a mother or sister, is openly discussing his proximity to the recruit on a public site. He's described his romantic relationship as "a source", and is asking to compare his knowledge to other "sources". Now imagine this companion of imurcane is you, and you read this site or someone you know reads it. So you discover the person that you are dating, or a person reasonably close to your child, is broadcasting that he has inside information on him and his life. Not only that, he uses his public image on the site, while openly saying he is trying to influence the decision of the recruit.
What should matter to you is that Miami gets Damon Wilson, not that you know that Miami is getting Damon Wilson. If you don't understand how this hurts Miami, you probably don't get much information shared with you, and you never will. It is one thing to say "I have reason to feel good about this recruit", and entirely different thing to say, "check me out lol I've known him for years I'm dating a family member".
My morality in this endeavor is Miami winning. Your morality is that of a junkie, getting high off a desperate poster's cat calling for attention.