SayWhat
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I agree with the sentiment 100%. But there’s a lot more to it than that.
The issue here is money. The root of all evil. Everyone is hunky dory until someone tells you I’ll give you a few thousand to do X, Y, or Z. These kids usually do not come from money so if a person (I.e a coach or person connected to a certain school) says don’t go to your planned visit stay or go to X school for 5-10k or more then all bets are off.
You’re a 16-17 year old kid that’s been grinding your *** off and most of your family don’t or haven’t ever had money and someone says here’s several grand to do something simple. You’re telling me if you’re in that situation, you wouldn’t do it? As others have said everyone is about instant gratification (everyone not just this generation but all generations).
It takes a lot of sacrifice and a very high integrity person to say no in that situation. That doesn’t make these kids bad people, in fact most kids are good kids, it’s just that money can go a long way to helping la familia out.
I get you on that.
Integrity man, it's hard to say what anyone would do in this new world we're in where we had thay going and now we've got NIL.
You've been starving for so long, grinding, and it's pay day. Not necessarily today, but it could be. Gotta think the long game as you play it thay way, you're going to get paid when you're this recruit or another big one.
Kind of like showing your house that's for sale to five people who all want it rather than the first two through the door who've both submitted the offer. Five offers, you'll see the most money and who knows, one of those first two may be the biggest.
I'm not faulting anyone from the outside looking in. I don't know them, but if we have zero chance as that article seems to indicate you just eliminated a potential buyer. That's not going to help in the long run and you played yourself in the short term.