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100% agree the victim should be in all of our thoughts. I think all of us have learned to wait to see if an accused is convicted before piling on. But we are too quick to overlook that there is someone who was injured regardless of the legal outcome, and may be in real crisis. Heart goes out to her.
I really wanted Lewis based on his play, but didn't realize what a headcase he was. Glad Manny stayed away (for the most part). Sounds like Mario knew the kid's MO and didn't even take a look. Good for him.
Kudos to both you and Joe'Cane for putting the focus on the victim first.
It's painful when talented people with great potential fail in a way that destroys their own futures. We have been programmed to think first about the "famous" person who is accused, rather than the anonymous person who was victimized.
And nobody said that the accused is 100% guilty 100% of the time. But those who act like domestic violence cases are some kind of 50-50 jumpball between the accused and the victim are just nuts.
We should never rush to judgment. But we rarely seem to rush to compassion, particularly for victims. And, hey, maybe "victims" isn't even the right word to use, it carries a stigma. Maybe "survivors" is a better word.
I hope the person involved in the T2 incident is safe and sound, and healing on a physical and emotional level. Once everything is back to some sense of normality, I pray that everyone gets the help they need, including T2.