The stuff with Jeremiah Smith is a perfect example.
On one side, you have binary porsters who want to spew the "he was never coming here" nonsense to protect their feels.
On the other side, you have very specific information that Jeremiah Smith conveyed to coaches and/or players at THREE schools that he was choosing that school.
In between, you have some great insiders like DMoney and Cribby who are doing their best to help people understand where the process stands, without giving away too much information that messes up the process.