Not every kid grows up with a dream school based on just W/L record. Do you think anyone grows up dreaming of living in Norman, Ok or Happy Valley, PA? People 100% grow up dreaming of living in Miami because of weather, lifestyle, opportunity, culture, etc.
For example outside of recent success what can UGA, Oklahoma, and PSU match Miami in? Pretty sure Miami has better academics. Clearly have better weather and a better city/lifestyle. More to do in Miami than any of those places.
These schools all have more recent success and have packed stadiums every week. If that’s all you care about then yes Miami is not the place for you and certainly wouldn’t be your dream school. But if you care about academics, life after football, tradition/history, style of play (specifically defense), weather, smaller classes, smoking hot spanish chicks, and having fun then yeah Miami could be a good time.
You're being very one sided with all of that.
Yes, I do believe people grow up wanting to go to those big schools. Even ones in Norman, Happy Valley, etc. Say what you want about most college towns that are centered around the schools, but they're a paradise for most college aged students. There's hot chicks at all those schools and they're on campus as students rather than just part of the city life.
As for history, many of those schools you've mentioned have a looooong and rich history that predates ours as well as recently. Same for NFL, style of play, etc. Life after football, those big schools have better connections and alumni networks as well.
Better academics, yes, better than most of those schools. Academic rankings are silly though since very few major prospects have that at the top of their list. We would be in the top tier though of those you listed, but a couple trump us there. He's got plenty of better academic prospects in state if that's a big factor.
City lifestyle, yes, bigger for sure. Affordable, not really. You also are a small fish in a big pond no matter how good you are. If you want a city, it favors us over most.
Weather, those others have change of seasons. So if you want warm year round, then come here. Floridians tend to make a bigger deal of this than anyone who has a change of seasons. You just get used to the winter.
Ultimately there is a lot of factors for one to decide. It's far from normal for someone out of state saying we're their dream school, so I would like to know why anyone says that.