Again, I understand, I am 41 I have definitely seen what the program should look like. I moved to SC when I was 18, At the time my family was going through some life altering 'stuff', and I have been here ever since.
I have been in and around baseball since I started playing t-ball. I still enjoy the 'side hustle' I have and take part in almost year-round. I am actually fortunate enough to see the inside world of scouting, player profiling, etc., etc...I spend the majority of the time doing this around a baseball or softball field, but I get to spend a little time around a football field as well, and with primarily rising junior or senior high school athletes.
You are right failure is subjective and relative...but we not a failure. Iona, St. Peters, Dartmouth, Villanova...those programs are failures...