This is wonderfully articulated and deeply thought-provoking. Well done, sir! I spent some time pondering your insights and considering whether I had perhaps misinterpreted the author's intent in framing the question. While I certainly agree that you may be correct, I propose a different perspective.
The phrase
“are we being” can be interpreted as a reflection on our identity—our essence in action. "Being" suggests that this quality is not just superficial or temporary but may reflect a deeper essence or characteristic that we are expressing in this moment. It’s as if we’re asking, “Is this characteristic (in this case, harshness) something that defines our identity?”
To that, I would say yes. Many people may recall the quote, "To live is to suffer," which is often mistakenly attributed to Friedrich Nietzsche. In reality, this line appears in a foreword to a book by Viktor Frankl, written by Gordon Allport. Frankl himself was fond of quoting Nietzsche, saying,
“He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how.” Thus, it’s easy to see how the line could be misattributed to Nietzsche.
But I digress. To suffer is indeed "harsh" because life is inherently unfair. These are fundamental truths of mere existence, especially as human beings on this small, pale blue dot within the vast nothingness of our ever-expanding, seemingly infinite universe.
Therefore, we might interpret "Are we being to harsh?" as asking,
“Do we exist to endure harshness?” To which the collective "we," drawing from our own individual experiences, might mostly agree. The answer seems to be yes.
Yet, there is hope, found in Allport’s full quote:
“To live is to suffer; to survive is to find meaning in the suffering.”
And so, I ask,
@fraggle: What meaning can we find within the harshness? When you uncover that, you find your truth in
life CiS.