You can’t have it both ways. We all say here that we’re “TEU”, even though the coaching changes constantly. But nope, no matter what, we deserve all the tight ends.
And that’s fine.
But you can’t turn around and say LSU shouldn’t get any receivers because of Brian Kelly. Who produces WR’s better than LSU? Not many schools. So it’s gotta be one way or the other.
However, the first part of your post I agree with 100%. People who think any coach would keep every single elite SFL kid home are beyond incorrect. Some kids will always leave. Just the way it is. The goal should be to evaluate them properly, identify the ones who will develop into stars, and keep as many of those as you can.