What is wrong with parent trying to send their kids away? That is good parenting. Allow the kid to sink or swim on his own. This has nothing to do with recruiting or the university of Miami.
Noiw if the parent is pushing kid to go to a certain school, that will be something to look at
I'm going to get ragged for this post but here goes.
For those of you who didn't grow up in Miami during the late 70's early 80's I'll let you in on something. Miami is one of the most racist cities in America. We don't have a melting pot. It's always been a boiling pot. in the 80's we seemingly had race riots every couple years, and I'm not talking 10 people protesting, I mean full on race riots.
The last restaurant to integrate in America was the old Biscayne Cafeteria in Coral Gables on the Miracle Mile.
I remember before I left Miami in 2000, my brother and I were going to play a poker tournament and his wife said to be careful because there was this **** gang out there whose membership requirement was to kill a black, a latin and an asian. Not many of us Asians around in Miami so she wanted us to be careful.
Miami is crazy.
For all you Cuban Americans out there, during the 90's the Cuban American official endorsement for president went to....,David Duke big poobah of the Ku Klux Klan.
I ran a marketing program for the Omni Hotel in Miami years ago and they were holding the national golden gloves tournament in Miami and the boxers were all staying at the Omni, not even sure it's still called the Omni, but one day in the elevator there was me and some seriously tough looking guys and one of the boxers looks at the other and asks, "you been outside of the hotel?"
The other one says, "**** no, this city scares the **** out of me."
Let's face it all those parents of recruits in Miami are my age and had a love/hate relationship with the city of Miami. Most anyone who had the financial means or opportunity moved away from Miami when they could. It's just the way it was. Miami is a great city to vacation in, especially if you are like me and have had a life long fondness for latinas, but when you look at it from an objective view it's easy to see why parents would want there kids to get away. Maybe they want their kids to get away from negative influences, of which there are plenty in Miami.
On the flip side Coral Gables is not Miami. It's Miami like Beverly Hills and Westside L.A. is Los Angeles. My parents live on a Gables estate and are huge supporters of the University, but their Miami is a million miles away from some parent in Overtown. They can live anywhere but love Miami and who wouldn't when you have all the money in the world and live in paradise. Unfortunately every family in Miami and America is not like that living in an insulated bubble without a care in the world. Most people live in the real world, and the reality of Miami is oftentimes scary.