Parents are human too. Steed's father or uncle, can't remember, was really upset at how posters on here were treating him. Both Shaq's and Roberts' parents had to quit the boards because of the negativity.
Maybe posters shouldn't put the responsibility entirely on the parent, but take some responsibility to be respectful to 17-23 year old young men and their community? The Golden Rule is thousands of years old. Worth following it.